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Love is not all: it is not meat nor drink Nor slumber nor a roof against the rain; Nor yet a floating spar to men that sink And rise and sink and rise and sink again; Love can not fill the thickened lung with breath, Nor clean the blood, nor set the fractured bone; Yet many a man is making friends with death Even as I speak, for lack of love alone.

Edna St. Vincent Millay#4

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Love cannot fulfill physical needs, yet its absence leads many to despair or death.
In plain terms
Love doesn't feed you but lack of it can kill you.
What can you take from it?
Emotional connection is essential even if it doesn't sustain the body.

Where it applies

  • discussing loneliness
  • relationships

Putting it to work

  • mental health
  • therapy

Questions to consider

  • Can life exist without love?
  • Is love a basic need?

Another view

It overstates love as a life-or-death necessity.

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