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No girl, however coolly her blood may flow, can be pressed to a man's breast, wildly throbbing with love for her, and not experience some agitation in consequence. Whatever may be the state of her sentiments, there is a magnetism in such a contact which she cannot at once throw off. That kiss had brought her relations with Henry to a crisis. It had precipitated the necessity of some decision. She could no longer hold him off, and play with him. By that bold dash he had gained a vantage-ground, a certain masterful attitude which he had never held before. Yet, after all, I am not sure that she was not just a little afraid of him, and, moreover, that she did not like him all the better for it.

Edward Bellamy#3

LoveDecisionFeelingsIntimacyRelationshipTouch

About this quote

What does it mean?
Bellamy argues that physical contact creates an unavoidable magnetic tension that forces a relationship crisis.
In plain terms
Physical touch creates emotional tension that demands a decision.
What can you take from it?
Intimacy often forces relationship decisions.

Where it applies

  • dating
  • relationship conflict
  • social interaction

Putting it to work

  • navigating romantic tension
  • understanding physical cues

Questions to consider

  • Does touch change relationships?
  • How do you handle attraction?

Another view

It assumes all contact leads to crisis.

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