No girl, however coolly her blood may flow, can be pressed to a man's breast, wildly throbbing with love for her, and not experience some agitation in consequence. Whatever may be the state of her sentiments, there is a magnetism in such a contact which she cannot at once throw off. That kiss had brought her relations with Henry to a crisis. It had precipitated the necessity of some decision. She could no longer hold him off, and play with him. By that bold dash he had gained a vantage-ground, a certain masterful attitude which he had never held before. Yet, after all, I am not sure that she was not just a little afraid of him, and, moreover, that she did not like him all the better for it.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Bellamy argues that physical contact creates an unavoidable magnetic tension that forces a relationship crisis.
- In plain terms
- Physical touch creates emotional tension that demands a decision.
- What can you take from it?
- Intimacy often forces relationship decisions.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Does touch change relationships?
- How do you handle attraction?
Another view
It assumes all contact leads to crisis.
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