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What does it mean?
Hating other people ultimately damages your own self-esteem and capacity for self-love.
In plain terms
When you hate others, you end up hating yourself more.
What can you take from it?
Hatred of others erodes your own self-worth.

Where it applies

  • interpersonal conflict
  • personal growth
  • reconciliation

Putting it to work

  • forgive others
  • practice self-care

Questions to consider

  • How does hatred affect you?
  • What is the cost of anger?

Another view

Protecting oneself from harmful people is sometimes necessary.

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