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What does it mean?
You must be comfortable with yourself before you can connect with others.
In plain terms
If you do not like yourself, you cannot like others.
What can you take from it?
Build a good relationship with yourself first.

Where it applies

  • loneliness
  • dating
  • social anxiety

Putting it to work

  • self-reflection
  • self-care routines

Questions to consider

  • Do I treat myself with the kindness I offer others?

Another view

External validation still plays a role in human connection.

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  3. When you cease to make a contribution, you begin to die.

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