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What does it mean?
Young women are aware of their beauty but may not recognize their plainness.
In plain terms
Sixteen-year-olds know when they are pretty but not when they are plain.
What can you take from it?
Self-perception is biased by confidence.

Where it applies

  • adolescence
  • social judgment

Putting it to work

  • parenting
  • self-reflection

Questions to consider

  • How honest are we about appearance?
  • Why do we focus on beauty?

Another view

Teenagers may also be painfully aware of flaws.

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