These apparently opposed perspectives meet on the common ground of sexual conservatism. The monogamists uphold the traditional wife's 'official' values: emotional commitment is inseparable from a legal/moral obligation to permanence and fidelity; men are always trying to escape these duties; it's in our interest to make them shape up. The separatists tap into the underside of traditional femininity - the bitter, self-righteous fury that propels the indictment of men as lustful beasts ravaging their chaste victims. These are the two faces of feminine ideology in a patriarchal culture: they induce women to accept a spurious moral superiority as a substitute for sexual pleasure, and curbs on men's sexual freedom as a substitute for real power.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Monogamists and separatists both rely on traditional views that limit women's sexual pleasure and real power.
- In plain terms
- Different feminist views still limit women's sexual freedom.
- What can you take from it?
- Moral superiority often masks a lack of real power.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Does morality replace power?
- What substitutes do you accept?
Another view
It generalizes complex internal movements.
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