When we are invited to a banquet, we take what is set before us; and were one to call upon his host to set fish upon the table or sweet things, he would be deemed absurd. Yet in a word, we ask the Gods for what they do not give; and that, although they have given us so many things! (35)
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- At a banquet we accept what is offered; demanding beyond that is absurd, yet we often ask gods for what they haven't given.
- In plain terms
- Accept what is given without demanding more.
- What can you take from it?
- Cultivate gratitude for present blessings.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When is it appropriate to ask for more?
Another view
Accepting can be mistaken for passivity.
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