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It is easier to hate an enemy with much good in him than one who is all bad. We cannot hate those we despise. The Japanese had an advantage over us in that they admired us more than we admired them. They could hate us more fervently than we could hate them. The Americans are poor haters in international affairs because of their innate feeling of superiority over all foreigners. An American's hatred for a fellow American (for Hoover or Roosevelt) is far more virulent than any antipathy he can work up against foreigners. It is of interest that the backward South shows more xenophobia than the rest of the country. Should Americans begin to hate foreigners wholeheartedly, it will be an indication that they have lost confidence in their own way of life.

Eric Hoffer#26

PsychologyWarHatredInternational relationsInternationalRespect

About this quote

What does it mean?
Hatred requires some respect and is weaker against those we despise.
In plain terms
We hate those we admire more than those we think are worthless.
What can you take from it?
Respect fuels hate more than contempt.

Where it applies

  • international relations
  • interpersonal disputes
  • cultural conflicts

Putting it to work

  • build mutual respect
  • avoid contempt
  • seek understanding

Questions to consider

  • Who do you hate most?
  • Why does respect deepen hatred?

Another view

It generalizes complex hatreds into a single mechanism.

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  3. Mass movements can rise and spread without belief in a God, but never without belief in a devil.

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