To believe that if we could have but this or that we would be happy is to suppress the realization that the cause of our unhappiness is in our inadequate and blemished selves. Excessive desire is thus a means of suppressing our sense of worthlessness.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Excessive desire for external things masks the internal feeling of worthlessness.
- In plain terms
- Wanting things is often a way to hide feeling bad about yourself.
- What can you take from it?
- Desire can be a distraction from self-doubt.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What do you think will make you happy?
- Why do you want that?
Another view
Desire is also a natural human drive for improvement.
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