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What does it mean?
Some people seek solitude to avoid facing themselves, as they only see their own reflection in others.
In plain terms
Loneliness can be an escape from yourself, not from people.
What can you take from it?
Face your own reflection before avoiding others.

Where it applies

  • mental health
  • relationship building
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • practice solitude with intention
  • seek genuine connection
  • confront self

Questions to consider

  • Are you avoiding yourself?
  • Why do you seek solitude?

Another view

Solitude can also be healthy and restorative.

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