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What does it mean?
Jong argues that love is genuinely valuable and worth the risk, while cynicism stems from the fear of that risk.
In plain terms
Love is worth the effort and danger, and avoiding it risks more than trying.
What can you take from it?
Take risks for love because avoiding them costs more in the long run.

Where it applies

  • romantic relationships
  • personal growth
  • overcoming fear

Putting it to work

  • taking emotional risks
  • challenging cynicism

Questions to consider

  • What are you risking for love?
  • Is cynicism a shield or a barrier?

Another view

It assumes all risks in love lead to positive outcomes.

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