To spare oneself from grief at all cost can be achieved only at the price of total detachment, which excludes the ability to experience happiness.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Avoiding grief at all costs leads to total detachment. This detachment prevents experiencing happiness as well.
- In plain terms
- Avoiding grief stops you from feeling happiness.
- What can you take from it?
- Emotional detachment protects against pain and joy.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Is it possible to avoid grief?
- What is the cost of detachment?
Another view
It does not account for severe trauma.
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