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By alienation is meant a mode of experience in which the person experiences himself as an alien. He has become, one might say, estranged from himself. He does not experience himself as the center of his world, as the creator of his own acts - but his acts and their consequences have become his masters, whom he obeys, or whom he may even worship. The alienated person is out of touch with himself as he is out of touch with any other person. He, like the others, are experienced as things are experienced; with the senses and with common sense, but at the same time without being related to oneself and to the world outside positively.

Erich Fromm#26

PsychologyPhilosophySelfAlienationHuman condition

About this quote

What does it mean?
Alienation is when a person feels detached from themselves and their own actions, becoming controlled by external forces instead of being the center of their world.
In plain terms
You feel like a stranger to yourself and let your actions control you instead of the other way around.
What can you take from it?
Recognize when you feel disconnected from your own agency.

Where it applies

  • personal reflection
  • psychological analysis
  • existential crisis

Putting it to work

  • self-awareness practices
  • reclaiming agency

Questions to consider

  • When do you feel most disconnected from yourself?
  • Are your actions truly your own?

Another view

This view assumes a level of individual autonomy that may not exist in all social structures.

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