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I believe that if an individual is not on the path to transcending his society and seeing in what way it furthers or impedes the development of human potential, he cannot enter into intimate contact with his humanity. If the tabus, restrictions, distorted values appear 'natural' to him, this is a clear indication that he cannot have a real knowledge of human nature. I believe that society, while having a function both stimulating and inhibiting at the same time, has always been in conflict with humanity. Only when the purpose of society is identified with that of humanity will society cease to paralyze man and encourage his dominance.

Erich Fromm#63

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Real human connection requires questioning societal values and norms.
In plain terms
You cannot know yourself if you just follow society blindly.
What can you take from it?
Question society to find humanity.

Where it applies

  • activism
  • personal growth
  • ethical decision making

Putting it to work

  • critique norms
  • develop autonomy

Questions to consider

  • What values do you accept?
  • How do you know yourself?

Another view

Total rejection of societal norms can lead to isolation.

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