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What does it mean?
Those who suffer silently and unchangingly often become uninteresting to others.
In plain terms
People who suffer without change often attract the least sympathy despite needing it most.
What can you take from it?
Constant suffering without visible change may reduce sympathy from others.

Where it applies

  • mental health
  • social dynamics
  • charity

Putting it to work

  • advocate for silent sufferers
  • seek visible progress
  • cultivate empathy

Questions to consider

  • Why do you sympathize with some?
  • Does suffering attract pity?

Another view

This suggests sympathy is transactional based on perceived change.

More from F. H. Bradley

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  3. True penitence condemns to silence. What a man is ready to recall he would be willing to repeat.

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