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I sometimes think, with a sad delight, that if one day, in a future I no longer belong to, these sentences, that I write, last with praise, I will at last have the people who understand me, those mine, the true family to be born in and be loved. [...] I will only be understood in effigy, when affection no longer repays the dead the unaffection that was, when living.

Fernando Pessoa#106

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About this quote

What does it mean?
The writer hopes to be understood only after death, when judgment fades.
In plain terms
I want people to understand me after I die.
What can you take from it?
True understanding may come only after you are gone.

Where it applies

  • writing
  • legacy planning
  • seeking validation

Putting it to work

  • write honestly
  • accept time
  • hope for connection

Questions to consider

  • Do you want to be understood now or later?
  • What would you write for the future?

Another view

Understanding can happen while you are alive too.

More from Fernando Pessoa

  1. To think is to destroy. The very process of thought indicates it for the same thought, as thinking is decomposing.

    Permalink to quote #105
  2. Enthusiasm is rude.

    Permalink to quote #107
  3. Common man, no matter how hard life is to him, at least has the fortune of not thinking it.

    Permalink to quote #104

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