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What does it mean?
Love feels deferred and regretful when couples sense they are becoming something other than they hoped.
In plain terms
Love feels late and sad when they want to be different.
What can you take from it?
Love fades when expectations shift.

Where it applies

  • failing relationship
  • unmet expectations
  • aging

Putting it to work

  • accept change
  • communicate needs

Questions to consider

  • How does time change love?
  • When does regret enter a relationship?

Another view

It assumes love should always match initial ideals.

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  3. When I write, I solemnly visit myself.

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