Suffering, sad 'female humanity!' What are these feelings which they are taught to consider as disgraceful, to deny to themselves? What form do the Chinese feet assume when denied their proper development? If the young girls of the 'higher classes,' who never commit a false step, whose justly earned reputations were never sullied even by the stain which the fruit of mere 'knowledge of good and evil' leaves behind, were to speak, and say what are their thoughts employed upon, their thoughts, which alone are free, what would they say?
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Nightingale critiques how society forces women to deny natural feelings and repress themselves under the guise of propriety.
- In plain terms
- Women are taught to hide their feelings and deny themselves, similar to how their bodies are restricted.
- What can you take from it?
- Repressing natural emotions and desires damages human potential.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What feelings have I denied myself?
- How do propriety expectations limit me?
Another view
Social norms often protect individuals from chaos and harm.
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