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At present we live to impede each other's satisfactions; competition, domestic life, society, what is it all but this? We go somewhere where we are not wanted and where we don't want to go. What else is conventional life? Passivity when we want to be active. So many hours spent every day in passively doing what conventional life tells us, when we would so gladly be at work. And is it a wonder that all individual life is extinguished?

Florence Nightingale#37

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Conventional life forces people into passive, unfulfilling routines that suppress individuality.
In plain terms
Conventional life is about passively doing things we dislike, extinguishing individuality.
What can you take from it?
Reject passive conformity to conventional life to preserve individuality.

Where it applies

  • workplace culture
  • social obligations
  • daily routine

Putting it to work

  • challenge routines
  • seek active work
  • reduce passivity

Questions to consider

  • Am I passively following conventions?
  • What makes me feel extinguished?

Another view

Structure and convention provide stability and social cohesion for many.

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