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Take away a man's actual sense of manhood - which is conventionally based on the ability to work, to earn money, to be self-sufficient, to provide for children - and you've got to give them something else. And they did. This hideous religion that's all over the country - these huge church-malls - that's what substitutes for these lost towns. But that's not a town. That's a cult. A town is diverse, in a real way, not in this fake way we have now. A community is a butcher and a doctor, a minister, a town troublemaker. A 'community' is not a bunch of people united by some grievance. That's just self-righteousness - incredibly dangerous and antidemocratic. People have become so rigid; their opinions seem to them like themselves. When that happens (and it has happened) people can't change their minds. If you are identified by your opinions - if that is the very basis of yourself - how can you change your mind?

Fran Lebowitz#6

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Loss of traditional economic roles leaves a void that communities fill with rigid, homogeneous groups based on shared grievances rather than diverse roles.
In plain terms
When people lose their jobs and purpose, they often join extreme groups that demand strict agreement instead of building real communities.
What can you take from it?
Economic stability is foundational to healthy communities.

Where it applies

  • economic downturns
  • industrial decline
  • social polarization

Putting it to work

  • support local businesses
  • promote civic engagement
  • address job loss

Questions to consider

  • How do you define a real community?
  • What substitutes for work in your life?

Another view

Not all religious or community groups are cults.

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