Dans les premieres passions les femmes aiment l'amant, et dans les autres elles aiment l'amour.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- In first love, women love the man; later, they love the idea of love.
- In plain terms
- First loves focus on the person; later ones on the feeling.
- What can you take from it?
- Romantic priorities shift from person to concept over time.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Have you loved the idea not the person?
- Is this shift inevitable?
Another view
This generalizes gender and ignores individual variation.
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