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What does it mean?
If judged by its effects, love resembles hatred more than friendship.
In plain terms
Love's results often look like hate rather than friendship.
What can you take from it?
Love can cause destructive behavior similar to hate.

Where it applies

  • romantic breakups
  • possessive relationships
  • jealousy

Putting it to work

  • monitor for controlling behavior
  • distinguish love from obsession

Questions to consider

  • Can love hurt like hate?
  • When does love become possessive?

Another view

Healthy love often resembles friendship more than hatred.

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