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What does it mean?
Self love is the most effective flatterer because it constantly affirms our own worth.
In plain terms
Self love flatters us more than anyone else could.
What can you take from it?
We are our own biggest cheerleaders.

Where it applies

  • self reflection
  • decision making
  • criticism

Putting it to work

  • check biases
  • seek honest feedback

Questions to consider

  • How much do you flatter yourself?
  • Is self love dangerous?

Another view

Self love can also be healthy and necessary.

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