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What does it mean?
When you distrust your own judgment, staying quiet is the safest choice.
In plain terms
If you doubt yourself, silence is the best option.
What can you take from it?
Silence protects when confidence is lacking.

Where it applies

  • conflict
  • debate
  • uncertain situations

Putting it to work

  • choose silence when unsure
  • avoid rash speech

Questions to consider

  • When is silence wise?
  • How do you handle self doubt?

Another view

Silence can also signal agreement or ignorance.

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