As boys without bonds to their fathers grow older and more desperate about their masculinity, they are in danger of forming gangs in which they strut their masculinity for one another, often overdo it, and sometimes turn to displays of fierce, macho bravado and even violence.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Boys without father figures may form gangs to prove their manhood through extreme behavior.
- In plain terms
- Boys without dads might join gangs to show how tough they are.
- What can you take from it?
- Fathers help boys learn healthy ways to be men.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How does fatherhood shape masculinity?
- What other factors create gang culture?
Another view
It oversimplifies the causes of gang violence to just father absence.
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