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How much my life has changed, and yet how unchanged it has remained at bottom! When I think back and recall the time when I was still a member of the canine community, sharing in all its preoccupations, a dog among dogs, I find on closer examination that from the very beginning I sensed some discrepancy, some little maladjustment, causing a slight feeling of discomfort which not even the most decorous public functions could eliminate; more, that sometimes, no, not sometimes, but very often, the mere look of some fellow dog of my own circle that I was fond of, the mere look of him, as if I had just caught it for the first time, would fill me with helpless embarrassment and fear, even with despair.

Franz Kafka#72

ChangeIdentityFearConsistency

About this quote

What does it mean?
Life changes but the core self and its fears remain unchanged.
In plain terms
My life changed but deep down it is the same.
What can you take from it?
External change often hides internal consistency.

Where it applies

  • growing up
  • changing careers
  • facing peers

Putting it to work

  • accept inner feelings
  • examine fears
  • stay true to self

Questions to consider

  • What stays the same in you?
  • Why feel fear around friends?

Another view

Sometimes change does bring genuine deep transformation.

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