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A little while ago, not much more than a few days ago, I was a child who went about in a world of colors, of hard and tangible forms. Everything was mysterious and something was hidden, guessing what it was was a game for me. If you knew how terrible it is to know suddenly, as if a bolt of lightning elucidated the earth. Now I live in a painful planet, transparent as ice; but it is as if I had learned everything at once in seconds.

Frida Kahlo#1

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About this quote

What does it mean?
The loss of childhood innocence brings clarity but also pain and a sudden awareness of reality.
In plain terms
Growing up makes the world clear but painful and removes mystery.
What can you take from it?
Accept that clarity comes with the pain of knowing the truth.

Where it applies

  • coming of age
  • trauma recovery
  • philosophical reflection

Putting it to work

  • process grief
  • embrace reality
  • seek beauty

Questions to consider

  • What did you lose when you grew up?
  • How do you handle painful clarity?

Another view

Sometimes mystery protects us from the full weight of truth.

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