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What does it mean?
Exposing someone's weakness often creates lasting resentment because it threatens their dignity and self-image.
In plain terms
If you point out someone's weakness, they will remember it and be angry.
What can you take from it?
Avoid exposing others' weaknesses to prevent lasting conflict.

Where it applies

  • workplace disputes
  • friendship conflicts
  • public criticism

Putting it to work

  • praising strengths
  • giving private feedback
  • listening more

Questions to consider

  • Have you seen someone react when criticized?
  • How do you give feedback?

Another view

Sometimes exposing harmful behavior is necessary for safety.

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