Selective ignorance, a cornerstone of child rearing. You don't put kids under surveillance: it might frighten you. Parents should sit tall in the saddle and look upon their troops with a noble and benevolent and extremely nearsighted gaze.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Parents benefit from ignoring some of their children's misdeeds.
- In plain terms
- Don't watch kids too closely; it scares everyone.
- What can you take from it?
- Trust your kids instead of monitoring everything.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Where is the line between care and control?
- How much should parents know about their kids?
Another view
Safety concerns sometimes require more supervision.
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