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What does it mean?
Our feelings toward others reflect feelings toward ourselves. We project both love and hate from our own self-image.
In plain terms
We love and hate in others what is in us.
What can you take from it?
Relationships reflect how we treat ourselves.

Where it applies

  • therapy
  • conflict
  • dating

Putting it to work

  • check your feelings
  • improve self-image

Questions to consider

  • What do you hate in others about yourself?
  • How do you treat yourself?

Another view

Sometimes we react to others objectively.

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  3. Man can acquire accomplishments or he can become an animal, whichever he wants. God makes the animals, man makes himself.

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