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What does it mean?
Death brings relief as much as sadness because it ends the relationship's burdens.
In plain terms
We feel happy when someone we know dies because it's over.
What can you take from it?
Acknowledge relief after death; it is honest.

Where it applies

  • grief
  • funeral
  • family dynamics

Putting it to work

  • accept complex grief
  • honor the end

Questions to consider

  • Is relief normal in grief?
  • Why do we hide these feelings?

Another view

Not everyone feels relief; many feel pure loss.

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