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At every one of those concerts in England you will find rows of weary people who are there, not because they really like classical music, but because they think they ought to like it. Well, there is the same thing in heaven. A number of people sit there in glory, not because they are happy, but because they think they owe it to their position to be in heaven.

George Bernard Shaw#78

CultureHappinessAuthenticityConformityExpectations

About this quote

What does it mean?
People often conform to expectations in art and religion, valuing duty over genuine happiness.
In plain terms
Many pretend to enjoy things they don't because they think they should.
What can you take from it?
Don't do things just because others expect you to.

Where it applies

  • social gatherings
  • religious practice
  • art appreciation

Putting it to work

  • cultivating genuine interests
  • rejecting pretense
  • self-reflection

Questions to consider

  • Are you happy or just pretending?
  • What is authentic culture?

Another view

Some people find joy in fulfilling expected roles.

More from George Bernard Shaw

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  3. I was a hypocrite; and it served me right to be sent to heaven.

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