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What does it mean?
The speaker argues that selfishness disguised as politeness harms the spirit more than open passion.
In plain terms
Respectable selfishness hurts more than open passions.
What can you take from it?
Beware of selfishness disguised as respectability.

Where it applies

  • social dynamics
  • self-reflection
  • ethical decisions

Putting it to work

  • practice honesty
  • examine hidden motives

Questions to consider

  • How do we hide selfishness?
  • What is true integrity?

Another view

Social norms often require some degree of reserve.

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