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The essence of being human is that one does not seek perfection, that one is sometimes willing to commit sins for the sake of loyalty, that one does not push asceticism to the point where it makes friendly intercourse impossible, and that one is prepared in the end to be defeated and broken up by life, which is the inevitable price of fastening one's love upon other human individuals.

George Orwell#126

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Humanity involves accepting imperfection, loyalty over purity, and the pain of loving others.
In plain terms
Being human means not seeking perfection and accepting pain that comes from love.
What can you take from it?
Humanity requires embracing imperfection and risk.

Where it applies

  • personal growth
  • relationships
  • philosophy

Putting it to work

  • accept imperfections
  • prioritize loyalty
  • embrace life's struggles

Questions to consider

  • How much imperfection can you accept?
  • Is love worth the pain?

Another view

Some find value in pursuit of perfection or asceticism.

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