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What does it mean?
Displaying need or hunger makes people feel uncomfortable and want to avoid or harm the person.
In plain terms
When you look like you need help, people want to push you away.
What can you take from it?
Neediness can repel people and make them feel hostile.

Where it applies

  • job interviews
  • social interactions
  • charity appeals

Putting it to work

  • maintaining composure
  • asking respectfully

Questions to consider

  • Why does neediness make others uncomfortable?
  • How can we ask for help without repelling others?

Another view

Some people respond with compassion to visible need rather than hostility.

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