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What does it mean?
Instead of grieving the dead, honor their lives by appreciating their existence.
In plain terms
Celebrate the lives of those who died instead of mourning them.
What can you take from it?
Gratitude for life outweighs grief for death.

Where it applies

  • memorial services
  • loss of loved ones
  • wartime sacrifice

Putting it to work

  • focus on positive memories
  • share stories of the departed

Questions to consider

  • How can you honor someone's memory positively?

Another view

Grief is a natural process that cannot be replaced by gratitude alone.

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