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What does it mean?
The author feels that observing how people currently live offers no useful guide for living well.
In plain terms
Watching how others live does not teach me how to live my own life.
What can you take from it?
Do not rely on societal norms to guide your personal choices.

Where it applies

  • searching for meaning
  • disillusionment with culture
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • forming personal values
  • rejecting convention
  • self-reflection

Questions to consider

  • Who sets the example for how to live?
  • Can you learn from the world without copying it?

Another view

It ignores that many people do learn effectively from observing others.

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