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What does it mean?
Misery highlights individual existence while happiness dissolves the sense of self.
In plain terms
Pain makes you aware of yourself; happiness makes you forget.
What can you take from it?
Pain reinforces identity; happiness dissolves it.

Where it applies

  • philosophy
  • psychology
  • literature

Putting it to work

  • accept pain
  • balance joy

Questions to consider

  • Does happiness erase you?
  • Why is pain so specific?

Another view

Many find happiness also defines identity.

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