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Had they nothing more to say to each other? Their eyes, certainly, were full of more meaningful talk; and as they made themselves utter banalities they sensed the same languor invading them both: it was like a murmur of the soul, deep and continuous, more clearly audible than the sound of their words. Surprised by a sweetness that was new to them, it didn't occur to them to tell each other how they felt or to wonder why. Future joys are like tropic shores: out into the immensity that lies before them they waft their native softness, a fragrant breeze that drugs the traveler into drowsiness and makes him careless of what awaits him on the horizon beyond his view.

Gustave Flaubert#37

LovePsychologyCommunicationSilenceFutureIntimacy

About this quote

What does it mean?
Their eyes spoke more than words, sharing a sweet, lazy intimacy, while future joys felt like soothing but distracting breezes.
In plain terms
They felt a deep, wordless connection, and future pleasures seemed gently lulling.
What can you take from it?
Nonverbal intimacy can be profound, yet may mask deeper concerns.

Where it applies

  • romantic relationships
  • friendships

Putting it to work

  • listen to nonverbal cues
  • balance present joy with future planning

Questions to consider

  • How do you express love beyond words?
  • Are you aware of the 'lulling' effect of comfort?

Another view

Ignoring spoken communication can lead to misunderstandings.

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