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What does it mean?
She resents her partner's ignorance of her suffering and his belief that he makes her happy.
In plain terms
Her husband thinks he makes her happy but she knows she is suffering.
What can you take from it?
Misunderstanding creates resentment.

Where it applies

  • Partners in conflict
  • Unheard complaints
  • Marital disconnect

Putting it to work

  • Listen to pain
  • Acknowledge suffering

Questions to consider

  • Do you know your partner's pain?
  • Is intent enough?

Another view

It assumes awareness is enough to fix the hurt.

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