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What does it mean?
Thinking about bad things is often worse than the things actually happening.
In plain terms
Imagining bad things hurts more than reality.
What can you take from it?
Worry makes pain worse.

Where it applies

  • coping with anxiety
  • self-reflection

Putting it to work

  • manage expectations
  • face fears

Questions to consider

  • Is it better to forget?
  • Why do memories hurt more?

Another view

Sometimes reality is worse than memory.

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