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About this quote

What does it mean?
The speaker feels loved only during sad times, not when they are happy.
In plain terms
You only love me when I am sad.
What can you take from it?
Love based on pain is incomplete.

Where it applies

  • romantic relationship
  • emotional pain
  • seeking validation

Putting it to work

  • identifying unhealthy love
  • asking for support

Questions to consider

  • When do you feel most loved?
  • Is your relationship conditional?

Another view

It describes a specific relationship dynamic that may not apply generally.

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