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What does it mean?
Hating others harms you more than the target of your hatred.
In plain terms
Hating others hurts you like burning your house for a rat.
What can you take from it?
Hate destroys the hater more than the hated.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • personal healing
  • relationship repair

Putting it to work

  • forgive others
  • release grudges
  • cultivate empathy

Questions to consider

  • What grudges do you carry?
  • How does hate hurt you?

Another view

Sometimes anger is a justified response to harm.

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