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What does it mean?
Reject victimhood and define your own life rather than accepting others' labels.
In plain terms
Define your own life instead of letting others define it.
What can you take from it?
Claim agency over your identity.

Where it applies

  • conflict
  • discrimination
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • boundary setting
  • self advocacy
  • personal narratives

Questions to consider

  • Whose definition of your life do you accept?
  • What limits your self definition?

Another view

Systemic forces can limit individual definition.

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