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What does it mean?
Growing up requires leaving comfort and facing loss, which is a tragic necessity.
In plain terms
Maturity means losing safety and fighting for new meaning.
What can you take from it?
Accept that growth involves loss.

Where it applies

  • leaving home
  • career change
  • grieving

Putting it to work

  • embrace change
  • build new routines
  • accept loss

Questions to consider

  • What did you lose growing up?
  • Is growth worth the cost?

Another view

Some people find stability without major loss.

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