Every human being on this earth is born with a tragedy, and it isn't original sin. He's born with the tragedy that he has to grow up. That he has to leave the nest, the security, and go out to do battle. He has to lose everything that is lovely and fight for a new loveliness of his own making, and it's a tragedy. A lot of people don't have the courage to do it.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Growing up requires leaving comfort and facing loss, which is a tragic necessity.
- In plain terms
- Maturity means losing safety and fighting for new meaning.
- What can you take from it?
- Accept that growth involves loss.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What did you lose growing up?
- Is growth worth the cost?
Another view
Some people find stability without major loss.
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