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What does it mean?
Diplomacy manages power through restraint rather than force.
In plain terms
Real diplomacy controls power instead of using it.
What can you take from it?
Restraint is key to effective diplomacy.

Where it applies

  • international relations
  • conflict resolution
  • business deals

Putting it to work

  • practice restraint
  • seek negotiated terms
  • avoid escalation

Questions to consider

  • How do you exercise restraint?
  • When is power best not used?

Another view

Restraint may look like weakness to some.

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