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What does it mean?
Seeking total security, even mentally, is self-destructive like amputating limbs to avoid pain.
In plain terms
Trying to be completely safe cuts off what makes life real.
What can you take from it?
Security costs too much of your humanity.

Where it applies

  • life decisions
  • fear management

Putting it to work

  • risk taking
  • mental health

Questions to consider

  • What security have you sacrificed for comfort?
  • Is pain avoidable without losing yourself?

Another view

Some security is necessary for survival.

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