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What does it mean?
Opposite experiences like rain, silence, and grief give relief from constant joy.
In plain terms
We need variety and quiet times, not just happiness.
What can you take from it?
Accept sadness and rest as parts of a full life.

Where it applies

  • mental rest
  • life perspective

Putting it to work

  • embrace downtime
  • accept emotions

Questions to consider

  • Why do we need grief?
  • What balance do you seek?

Another view

Constant joy might not be so bad.

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