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What does it mean?
A widow has contradictory duties: she is a mother and must exercise paternal authority.
In plain terms
A widow must act both as mother and father.
What can you take from it?
Women may need to assume multiple parental roles.

Where it applies

  • single parenthood
  • family dynamics

Putting it to work

  • embrace dual roles
  • seek support networks

Questions to consider

  • How do widows balance conflicting expectations?
  • Is paternal authority still relevant?

Another view

It assumes all widows face the same expectations.

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