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What does it mean?
Love is a harmonious music, and a woman is an instrument that must be understood and played skillfully.
In plain terms
Love is music; a woman is an instrument to learn.
What can you take from it?
Understanding a partner requires careful study.

Where it applies

  • courtship
  • marriage

Putting it to work

  • communicate openly
  • learn partner’s needs

Questions to consider

  • Is love better described as music?
  • What does it mean to 'play' a partner?

Another view

It reduces women to objects for pleasure.

More from Honore de Balzac

  1. Les femmes les plus vertueuses ont en elles quelque chose qui n'est jamais chaste.

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  2. Un homme ne peut se marier sans avoir etudie l'anatomie et disseque une femme au moins.

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  3. La vertu des femmes est peut-etre une question de temperament.

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